Child Custody Case Gone Bad, Appears Cassie Carli Murdered by Ex Boyfriend Marcus Spanevelo Best To Have Private Investigator involved. I have worked hundreds of child custody cases over the last 27 years and when they go bad, and you know it's gone bad, protection for the woman at the neutral drop off point for the child is essential. " Cassie Carli had previously felt ' extremely ' unsafe and nervous around her ex, according to her sister ". She never should have met the man by herself! I have gone with several female clients to these neutral drop off points in my car and stayed right near the client's car until the exchange was made. Just the fact that someone was with the woman at risk, seemed to quell any thoughts of retaliation by the ex. Licensed private investigators in Florida with a statewide concealed firearm license can do work as a body guard. Cassie Carli went missing after dropping off her four-year-old daughter to her ex boyfriend Marcus Sp...